My teenage self might have found these a surprise. My future self might either inculcate or disagree. Here are notes to self that have accumulated in 22 years:
- The only limits I should believe are the ones I set upon myself.
- All people are smart but in different ways. Nobody is dumb; some either lack knowledge and understanding or are willfully ignorant. đŹ
- I’m glad I have unintentionally mastered the art of laughing at myself. And at my jokes, sometimes.
- My toughest competitor is myself. Success is typically defined as being superior to others yet nothing compares to realizing I’ve outdone myself.
- Comparing myself to others is pointless. Learn from aspects worth emulating but never measure my abilities against theirs. Go at my own pace.
- Some of the best things in life: long walks at sunset right before darkness sets in, conversations without incessant phone-checking, clouds worth appreciating, and rainy days with cold breeze and petrichor.
- There are different kinds of fun. It can be watching a movie with my family, going out with friends, or having a much needed alone time.
- Written exchanges over the Internet are prone to misinterpretation.
- Outgrowing things that my younger self deemed indispensable is normal.
- People I constantly surround myself with can heavily influence what I consider normal and acceptable.
- Writing is an effective form of catharsis that helps present matters in a bigger picture.
- Things can be worse in my head than they actually are.
- My thoughts can become my reality. That is, if I see studying as an abyss of the difficult and impossible, I’d find reasons for my situation to match my expectations.
- In choosing a path, interest alone is not enough. Having a clear reason and purpose for others is as essential.
- Passion is not found; it doesn’t fall magically on my lap. It is cultivated.
- One of the most fulfilling moments is having contributed to people’s growth and know how then seeing them improve.
- Misery can be caused by clinging to past events or an older version of myself.
- No matter how awful or mundane a day, there is always a reason to be grateful.
- How I say it is as important as what I say.
- Words can reaffirm and-or shift perspective. Read more.
- Acknowledge and label a wide spectrum of emotions, all of which are valid.
- I can always choose to become better.